While emotional intimacy plays an important role in a relationship, sometimes people forget that physical intimacy is the fine balance that keeps a couple connected, even when they're miles apart. While some couples have a pretty good connection when they’re together through physical affection and everyday experiences, couples in long-distance relationships may have to think out of the box.

One study suggested that “imagined” intimacy can help long-distance relationships and that experts say using imagination to maintain connection or visuals helps partners fill in the blanks when they’re not with one another.

If you’re one of those couples, this article will explain just how much intimacy and fun you can have with a little help from technology and imagination.

Sex Toys for Long-Distance Relationships

For the longest time, maintaining a connection was hard for long-distance couples. This was all before the technological breakthroughs that are so easily accessible today – from Bluetooth and Wi-Fi to app connections.

Here are some of the best sex toy types designed for long-distance couples:

Remote-Control Vibrators: From clitoral vibrators and wands to dual stimulation, app-controlled or remote-controlled vibrators are essentially the best toys on the market for both local and long-distance couples. Useful and practical, these vibrators can be connected to a phone, giving access to features that let distant partners take control of the settings in real-time – a great way to add intensity and surprise to an already curious experience.
Vibrating Panties: The participating partner gets to wear a wearable vibrator that sits inside to arouse the clitoris. Some remote-controlled panties offer magnetic attachments to keep them from moving. In some cases, these can be controlled from anywhere via an app.

If you and your partner are beginners, you can find some of the best tips here: Vibrating Panties for Couples

Male Masturbators and Cock Rings: Interactive or immersive male sex toys, such as masturbators, strokers, or cock rings, are a fun, travel-friendly option designed to simulate real-time stimulation of the penis by a partner. For extra fun, some masturbators can be used or accessed via app-controlled vibrators for both partners.
Dildos and Plugs: Butt plugs, egg vibrators, G-spot vibrators, and dildos allow the receiving partner to feel as if the penetration is being controlled by the giving partner. Be sure to choose one made of silicone if you want something smooth, soft, and easy to clean. Choose a high-quality lubricant if you plan on having an extended session.

Using Sexting and Phone Sex for Intimacy

There’s nothing shameful or wrong with sexting your partner, only that you send it to the right person. Sexting has played a big role in modern relationships, especially for couples who are apart for long periods or aren’t living together.

Here’s how you can make the most of it:

Talk about sexual fantasies or role-play.
Be mysterious and playful in your approach.
Give each other instructions.
Send voice notes to maximise response.
Use the remote-controlled or app-controlled sex toys at the same time.
Using a secure and private platform, share some sexy shots (whatever you’re comfortable with) or video call your partner for real-time fun.

Just remember that before you hit send, communicate and reach a mutual agreement, especially if this is the first time you’ve ever thought about it.

We’ve explained some of the finer details in an article to help: 8 Popular Tips on How to Have Phone Sex

Tips on Staying Connected

Create a schedule: Couples who make time for phone calls will inevitably have more success in maintaining intimacy than those who don’t. Talk about each other’s schedules and keep them visible. Modern tech has made it possible to keep in touch, so don’t forget to make reminders a habit – especially if you’re forgetful.

Set boundaries: Not all relationships are the same, so trust and transparency are pretty important. Ground rules or boundaries help you and your partner be on the same page about what works best.

Share Goals: If you two are already on the same page about having a long-distance relationship, then you’re at a place where you can both be content. However, be sure to confirm the standards that you’re allowed to have in an open relationship, if any.

Self-care: Feeling lonely in a long-distance relationship is pretty normal. Use the time that you have to focus on everything else around you, like friends, hobbies, and work. If you try not to get caught up thinking about the time apart, you’ll see positive results when you do see or talk to your partner

Key Takeaway

While it’s fun to keep things mysterious, spontaneous, and creative when you’re in a relationship, it’s just as important to keep the basics intact if you’re going to maintain a long-distance relationship.

Remember:

Get creative: Don’t fall short on what you already have to use for intimacy. Make that phone call or send that text, invest in a toy, and try new things together.
Communicate often: Staying in touch regularly will help fill that void when you’re not together (within reason). Always discuss rules and set boundaries if you or your partner decides to spice things up.
Be good to yourself: Relationships in general take a lot of work, even when you’re apart. It’s essential to look after yourself and prioritise well-being in order to maintain your role in a long-distance relationship.

Again, there are different types of relationships that work well with distance, while others do not. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself – have fun, experiment, and use the tools you have to rekindle romance and spark intimacy from afar.