7 of the Best Oral Sex Positions for Maximum Pleasure
You’ve asked Google the question, didn’t you? Well, we’re here to answer that question in this article. We’ve rounded up some of the top oral sex positions featured in both Men’s Health and Cosmopolitan, so take note.
So, what do the numbers tell us?
They say that most people will say that oral sex can either set the tone for a night of sex or derail the entire experience, and we couldn’t agree more. Research reports have highlighted that close to “75% of women need external stimulation to have an orgasm” or that clitoral stimulation makes for a better orgasm experience. Around 18% said that they could only cum from vaginal penetration, as reported by Men’s Health.
Is oral sex more intimate? Surprisingly, a lot of people have said yes: “It’s a great way to bond with your partner.”
What is Oral Sex?
What is oral sex? Oral involves using your mouth, lips, or tongue to stimulate erogenous zones such as the genitals or anal area.
According to Cosmopolitan, oral sex is not just about foreplay – these seven positions prove it. Clinical sexologist and coach, Lucy Rowett, explains, “Foreplay doesn't just work to bring more blood flow to your genitals for enhanced arousal, it gets you into the right headspace for great sex and helps take you out of your busy mind.”
As most of us know, oral sex is often seen as the act of “foreplay” – but that’s only partially true. Foreplay before sex is super subjective, and while oral sex forms part of foreplay, it’s also an intimate experience in its own right. From blowjobs to muffing and 69’s, oral is designed to help you relax, connect, and anticipate pleasure before penetration, no matter what mood you’re in.
How to Do Oral Sex positions?
One thing’s for sure: it really depends on you and your partner. Consider things like pace, position and technique – these factors can help guide you in the right direction.
Whether it’s lesbian sex, gay sex, or heterosexual intercourse –getting the lowdown on the finer details is a smart move.
7 of the Best Oral Sex Positions According to Experts
We’ve narrowed down some of the most sensational oral positions that will have you begging for more.
- The Bend and Slap: Feeling adventurous? Try mixing things up with an oral-spanking combo. Have one partner kneel on a chair (a pillow helps) and lean forward, hands resting on the back of the chair for balance. Your partner kneels behind to deliver oral pleasure, with the option to add a few playful spanks if that’s your vibe. However, if you’re not into spanking, this position is just as hot when it’s all about oral and zero bruising.
- Heir to the throne: Have the receiver sit back in a chair with their legs open and relaxed. It’s the perfect position for starting slow, teasing with gentle strokes, or finishing with deeper, more focused movements. The receiver can easily guide their partner’s rhythm, while the giver enjoys a dull, up-close view – a major turn-on for many.
- The human vibrator: Take things up a notch by adding a wand vibrator into the mix. The giver can press the wand gently against their throat while performing oral, letting the vibrations travel through to their mouth for a whole new level of sensation. Experiment with different spots and intensities to see what feels best for both of you, as suggested by sex educator Alicia Sinclair.
- The swiper: This position is super versatile. Try placing a sex pillow, or even a regular one, under the receiver’s hips for extra comfort and the perfect angle. The giver can use their mouth to create gentle suction over the receiver’s labia and clitoris, then move their head side to side in a slow, teasing motion.
- New flavours: Flavoured lube saves the day with this one! Warm up with a generous helping of body-safe lubricant. Apply it to your partner’s intimate areas and enjoy a sweet flavour that helps make things taste as good as they feel.
- Oral for one: No partner? No problem. You can recreate sensations of oral pleasure all on your own. Reach for your favourite adult toy that combines vibration with multiple speed settings and movements.
- The saddle straddle: This position is a fun and playful one for both you and your partner. Have him straddle you with his legs on either side, giving you full access to his penis. Use both hands and work your way up and down the shaft, and don’t forget to tease the tip for maximum pleasure.
Is Oral Sex Safe?
You will always stand a chance of catching STIs, herpes or other viruses related to oral sex. For ladies, wearing a female condom could help reduce your risk of catching an STI, and for men, well, condoms do a lot of good other than simply preventing pregnancy.
Note to self: Don’t give oral if you have sores and cuts in your mouth.
Extend oral sex With Adult Toys and lube
Last but not least, adult toys for men and women can help prolong your oral sex session. Throw in an adult sex game, bullet vibrator or cock ring for good measure, and you’ll definitely feel the results. Don’t forget the flavoured lube and massage oil - perfect for a light, sensual massage before oral.
